Listening to the lotr soundtrack as you get ready for bed is all fun and games until gollum’s song starts playing

Posted September 21, 2014 @ 23:49

An Open Letter to Sam Pepper

lacigreen:

Hi Sam!

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter.  As fellow YouTubers, we have much respect for others who put so much hard work into building their channel.  It’s not easy, and you should be proud!  That said, we’ve noticed that in your success, there has been a lack of respect in return…namely, for women and girls.

You may have noticed that your latest video “Fake Hand Ass Pinch Prank” has garnered considerable negative attention.  In this video, you sexually violate a number of unsuspecting women on the street, many of whom are visibly confused and upset at being touched by you without permission.  One woman even says “I don’t like that!” while you proceed to laugh and touch her more.  In “How to Make Out with Strangers”, made a year ago, you pressure women on camera to make out with you - again, many of whom are visibly uncool with it.  Confused and caught off guard, they painfully follow through with your requests, clearly uncomfortable.  In “How to Pick Up Girls with a Lasso”, you physically restrain women on the street with lassos - many of whom look alarmed to be restrained by a stranger on the street.

You’d probably be alarmed too, wouldn’t you?  Imagine someone on the street comes up and rubs their hand on your bottom, or a girl walks up to you with a camera and forces her mouth onto yours while you’re trying to figure out what’s going on.  Imagine walking down the alley alone, when a guy much larger than you physically restrains you with rope and pulls you toward him.  You probably wouldn’t like it, right?

People don’t like to be violated and they don’t like to see their friends and girlfriends be violated either (hence the group of men that tried to beat you up in the lasso video).  And yet, history suggests that perhaps you find this humorous.  It is very disturbing that we live in a world where the violation of women and girls’ bodies is not only funny, but profitable, and can garner considerable notoriety and views on YouTube.

We are deeply disturbed by this trend and would like to ask you, from one creator to another, to please stop.  Please stop violating women and making them uncomfortable on the street for views.  Please stop physically restraining them and pressuring them to be sexual when they are uncomfortable.  Please show some respect for women’s right to their own bodies.  While it may seem like harmless fun, a simple prank, or a “social experiment”, these videos encourage millions of young men and women to see this violation as a normal way to interact with women.  1 in 6 young women (real life ones, just like the ones in your video) are sexually assaulted, and sadly, videos like these will only further increase those numbers.

We realize that people make mistakes, and that sometimes it’s hard to see the ripple effect of one’s actions.  We really hope that you will take a step back and consider the power you have to be someone who makes the world a better place.  It’s not too late to make a change!  We invite you to join us in ending widespread bodily violation that takes place in so many forms all around in the world.

Thanks so much.

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Posted September 21, 2014 @ 19:22 VIA - SOURCE
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hellhouse:

starting to think that punk might be a good look for me

Posted September 20, 2014 @ 19:28 VIA
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Routine by Rianne 

asexualfanfiction:

Fandom: Les Miserables (5,761 words, complete)
Rating: G
Characters: Courfeyrac, Combeferre, Enjolras, Grantaire (background), Jehan (background), Bahorel (background), Bossuet (background), Marius (background)
Ships: Combeferre x Courfeyrac, Enjolras x Grantaire (background)
Friendships: Courfeyrac + Enjolras
Genre: Fluff
Synopsis: Modern AU This is the routine:

He sees someone cute. He asks the person out on a date. If there’s a second date, he kisses them if they want to. But kissing is where the problems start, because the other wants more. And Courfeyrac really, really doesn’t, unless the “more” consists exclusively of “more kissing” and “cuddling”. So the next step in the routine, when he notices that the other person is starting to entertain the idea of having sex with him, is to tell himself that he should be open and honest and come clean about whatever is wrong with him, and hope for the best. He hasn’t managed to convince himself yet. Instead, he chickens out and tells the other person it isn’t going to work out at the end of the third date.

His routine works pretty well, until he falls in love with his best friend.

Asexual character discusses sex with non-asexual character.

I’ve read a looot of ace fics (I check the ao3 tag religiously), and this is probably my favorite one I’ve ever read. Probably because Courf’s experience is super relatable for me, but it’s also written really well. go go go read it

Posted September 20, 2014 @ 17:32 VIA
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new-ace-on-the-block:

Tiny Dinosaur wanted to help out with awareness so he made a tiny presentation.
Suggestions for improvements are very welcome, he has never made a presentation about asexuality before and he wants to make sure he gets it right.

Posted September 20, 2014 @ 17:06 VIA

wrathandruin:

lotr meme → 5/8 quotes

And the fellowship of the ring… though eternally bound by friendship and love… was ended.

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Something sort of dark. Like it was running. Running which way? Towards us.

Posted September 20, 2014 @ 11:33 VIA - SOURCE